Single doesn't suit me. I've said it a million times, though it's been unpopular to hear by people around me, I am happiest & truly content when I am somebody's someone. It is kinda how I identify myself as part of something bigger & better than just me. I have 3 kids... almost grown and one adult child... and being connected to them is great... but it's not the end of to be all....you understand?For me, in the end, after all is said and down, when the doors or locked, the lights or out and I'm in my bed... I can't cuddle my kids at night. They can't hold me and make me feel secure & protected & loved a way a man can... Ya know? And as a women... when the day is done messing with us... that is what we thrive on... Knowing our safest place is just a few steps away and a man that won't judge us, ridicule us, or give of criticism... even the constructive kind.

Steenbok